I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responses and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basically it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.